An open letter because this is how I process feelings;

It’s so weird to me that I ever thought I had anything in common with a person who considered my dietary choices a personal attack, who was scornful of the homeless and disadvantaged, and viewed me as a hateful, judgmental individual just for not believing in a Christian god. Proximity can make you blind. How did I ever not recognize that it was you all along making me feel miserable and inadequate? I am way smarter than you, and probably even nicer when it really comes down to it. What I mean is, at least I care about the people who care about me. I remember once I told you how happy I was that school had started again, and I could finally focus on something and how just sitting in the library with a good cup of coffee made me so happy. And you just told me that college was useless. And all I could think back then was well yeah, if you majored in photography and can’t even keep a coffee shop job. And even if my degree is pointless, at least I’ve worked hard and learned and loved it. I couldn’t say it back then, but really, Fuck You.

And while I’m on the subject, maybe I am NOT the person you should have told that you don’t love your girlfriend, you wouldn’t even want to be her friend, and you think sex with her is morally wrong. Maybe those are the things you should be telling HER.

You are gross, I can’t believe I ever called you friend, and I am so much incredibly better off without you. Fuck off!

Sincerely, KR